Not that it matters here, but...
On the Dellner fitted units I work on, the compression of the main res connection itself is what operates the electrical coupler head (think of it as an automatic auto-coupler!) And the additional port is used to supply to the opposite units uncouple cylinder during the uncouple process.
you know, In was probably wrong about the additional port, but on the units I worked worked the same as yours it sounds like, on the compression of the main res port fed a ball valve linked to a moving cam that rotated around the uncoupling handle 'axis' to prevent electrical head deployment if mechanical coupling had failed. (we had really tight tolerances and the electrical head was not allowed to deploy if the link arm(the bit that sticks out of the cone and engages with the slot in the disk) was more than 7mm away from 'home' position