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What do you call the meal between 1200 and 1400, and where do you come from?

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Here on the Penzance Riviera, we partake of dejeuner for our degustation and are wished bon appetit as we wash down our pasties with a pastis. Apologies for lack of appropriate accents. Earlier in the day is petit dejeuner, naturellement.;)
 
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Dinnertime for me is the period between 1200 and 1400.

Being from Cheshire/south Manchester I’ve always referred to meal times as:
  • Breakfast
  • Dinner
  • Tea
At various times I also use:
  • Packed lunch (eaten at dinnertime)
  • Supper (cheese and biscuits, or a bag of chips about 10pm)
 

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When I was growing up in the NE, dinner was a mid day meal. Having now lived in the south for most of my adult life and worked in professional offices I would now call it lunch!
I read somewhere that on some Navy ships back in the day, the Tannoy would be 'hands to dinner, officers to lunch'.
 

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This is to avoid derailing a Covid thread, where I recounted my experiences at ‘dinner time’, which I would count as about 1200-1400. The learned contributor @Jimini then suggested it should be ‘lunchtime’.

What do you call it, and where do you come from? It is not always possible to see your location if people are reading this on a phone.

And yes, ‘Christmas Dinner’ is always late, wherever you live.

Edit: The thread it was derailed from was

https://www.railforums.co.uk/thread...ns-and-compliance.220043/page-24#post-5261868

What have we started here :lol:
 

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Weekdays:
Breakfast
Lunch
Dinner

Weekends:
Breakfast
Dinner
Tea

(grew up in Staffs and then Walsall to parents from Derby and South Wales)

Nowadays I tend to refer to any day as
Breakfast
Lunch
Tea

And Christmas Dinner was always around 1pm so we could speak to the rest of the family during the afternoon
 

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Lunch
Sunday Lunch

Later/evening meal is either tea or dinner. You would go out for dinner, but not tea.


Birmingham
 

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Also Brum.

Dinner, then tea or supper.

I also have an irrational dislike of the L-word. It's pretentious I think, therefore maybe it is class-based?

And as for luncheon! :p
 

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There was that famous line in the Sweeney when John Thaw says ''We're the Sweeney son, and we haven't had any dinner!''

CJ
 

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I've always called it "lunch" - but Christmas Dinner has always been just that (and normally happens around half-past one/two o' clock). The location on my profile is given as "GWR land" but I'll give a more detailed (well only just) answer of the Cotswolds :)

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Also Brum.

Dinner, then tea or supper.

I also have an irrational dislike of the L-word. It's pretentious I think, therefore maybe it is class-based?

And as for luncheon! :p
Luncheon meat, corned beef and spam were staple parts of the diet of ordinary people in the decade/decade and a half after the end of WW2. There was absolutely nothing pretentious about luncheon meat, nor about Luncheon Vouchers (worth three shillings and sixpence each, from memory), so you're totally wrong about the class connotations I'm afraid.
 

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Lunch (Manchester and West Country) but the evening meal is tea if at home and dinner if out.

Funnily enough, in French-speaking Switzerland where I spemt loads of time as a kid, lunch isn't "déjeuner" but "diner". That's because "déjeuner" is breakfast, whereas in France-French it's "petit-déjeuner".
 

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Dinner if at home; lunch if out, and I am eating something like sandwiches.
Late afternoon / early evening meal is teatime.

(St. Helens, Lancashire.)
 

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When I was a boy in Sheffield, the mid day meal (whether a hot meal or sandwiches) was Dinner. Except on Sundays where we had Sunday Lunch (eaten just after mid day). At Christmas we always had Christmas Dinner, served just after mid day.

The afternoon meal was tea. Supper was a bag of crisps or a couple of biscuits eaten in front of the TV shortly before bed time.

Once a year, when on holiday in Cornwall, we would have 'afternoon tea' which was sandwiches followed by scones with jam and cream. I am not sure if this was really 'afternoon tea' or just my mum's attempt at appearing posh!

I moved south about 15 years ago and had to change how I referred to the meals to avoid confusion. Lunch was eaten in the middle of the day and Dinner was the evening meal. Tea is a hot drink and I don't think I ever refer to Supper.

But I've just spent a week with my mum and sister, who both still live in Sheffield and I noticed they now both used 'lunch' for the mid-day meal. They still use 'tea' for the afternoon meal though.
 

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Midday meal is lunch.

Tea is a light meal (sandwiches and cakes) in the late afternoon (obviously with a pot of tea!).

Dinner is the main meal of the day, usually early/mid evening (but can be had early/mid afternoon on Sundays and Christmas Day, replacing lunch and/or tea).

Supper is a snack just before bedtime.

(born in Suffolk, grew up in various parts of southern England, now reside in Worcestershire, but with close connections to Scotland)
 

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Lunch if it's something light, Dinner if it's a large meal. Evening meal is always tea.

In terms of times, 12 is far too early, between 2 and 3 is my preference.
 

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Oim frum Brum.

Lunch at 12, tea at 5. Though if we are going to be posh and eat out, at Harvester for example, then it might be called dinner.
 

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From the north east:

It is dinner time. But I tend not to have a big meal then. When we had a work canteen, then I would sit down to a proper dinner.

I now have my main meal at tea time. Or a bit later. 7pm isn't really a traditional time to eat.

Then maybe a nibble of something at supper time.

However, I do use the phrase 'packed lunch'.

This whole thing is a nightmare of complications and contradictions!
 

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It’s often asserted that the dinner / tea debate is some sort of north - south or location based divide but I would say it’s more of a cultural or demographic thing.

My mum, and numerous family members including my sister who is 15 years older than me, who were all born & grew up in London or the South East, all refer to the evening meal as Tea.

I personally don’t persist with this practice to avoid unnecessary confusion - Tea already exists as something else which is a hot drink, and therefore to answer the OP, the middle of the day meal is lunch.
 
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It’s often asserted that the dinner / tea debate is some sort of north - south or location based divide but I would say it’s more of a cultural or demographic thing.

My mum, and numerous family members including my sister who is 15 years older than me, who were all born & grew up in London or the South East, all refer to the evening meal as Tea.

I personally don’t persist with this practice to avoid unnecessary confusion - Tea already exists as something else which is a hot drink.
I agree with this being more a cultural or demographic thing. I grew up in North Cheshire / South Manchester. In recent years I have read a lot of people’s recollections of what it was like growing up in London and the South East and I’ve noticed a lot of parallels that highlight cultural and demographic similarities.

An autobiography that I read once of someone who grew up in Bermondsey described their home-life and it sounded exactly like home-life in Greater Manchester/Cheshire.
 

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This is to avoid derailing a Covid thread, where I recounted my experiences at ‘dinner time’, which I would count as about 1200-1400. The learned contributor @Jimini then suggested it should be ‘lunchtime’.

What do you call it, and where do you come from? It is not always possible to see your location if people are reading this on a phone.

And yes, ‘Christmas Dinner’ is always late, wherever you live.

Edit: The thread it was derailed from was

https://www.railforums.co.uk/thread...ns-and-compliance.220043/page-24#post-5261868

Lancastrian. Dinner ( even if a sandwich) then tea about 6pm ( usually substantial meal ). Strangely dinner is also a big meal with wine started about 8pm so can have two dinners in one day.
Brazillian D in L says lunch and dinner for pm meal no matter the contents of the meals which seems sensible to me. She does not recognise high tea, brunch or the strange Southern evening meal called supper. Supper to me is a biscuit about 11pm.
If I was a toff it would be breakfast, lunch, high tea then dinner which seems ideal to me especially if cook does good roasts and puddings.
 

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Lancashire born and bred.

Breakfast,
Dinner,
Tea,
Supper.

In that order, regardless of size of meal or establishment.

I always thought it a north/south thing, but perhaps it is a class thing, so that those wot are better than me can let me know my place through meal terminology, a bit like dropping latin phrases into conversations.

I do remember at secondary school (a comprehensive), when hand writing our lesson timetables on the first day of a new school year, that it was lunch. Perhaps they were trying to make us posh. Then followed hand numbering of the pages in exercise books - to stop you nicking the middle pages!

Brunch and High Tea don't come into it. You can have your breakfast late or your dinner early but there really is/was no need for a new word!
High Tea, why would you when tea proper is at five?

Remember, a finger of fudge is just enough to give your kids a treat. Or Milky Way: the sweet you can eat between meals without ruining your appetite. The idea of sitting down, with a cake stand of fancy little treats and a china tea service just didn't exist in my childhood.

Is dinner used by those that eat later into the evening after their long commute home from the office?

As evidence: Chippie Tea
To contradict: Fish Supper - in Scotland whatever time you buy it.
 

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Growing up in Sussex:
At school; Lunch at lunchtime in the dining hall served up by dinner ladies.
On school outings, we always had packed lunches. (Has anyone ever heard of a packed dinner?)
At home it was lunch at lunchtime sat at the kitchen table except when there were more than the four of us in which case we sat at the larger dinner table which was in the lounge. Whatever the location, we always used dinner plates.
Now I live just outside Sandwich, I feel that I should add that it’s namesake is nearly always consumed at lunchtime or teatime but hardly ever at dinner or supper time.

And a further thought: you can buy After Dinner Mints which are a strictly evening indulgence beloved of Margot Leadbetter type characters whilst draped over a chaise longue with a Martini. After Lunch Mints on the other hand have never been marketed to my knowledge.
 
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Depends on where I am, if at work then it's Dinner at 12pm and tea around 6:30pm.

If I'm on holiday or with friends then it's lunch around midday and Dinner around 7pm
 

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Being a bit of a night owl, the meal at that time of day is usually breakfast for me!

If I'm on 'normal' time it's lunch and the evening meal is usually tea or dinner.
I agree that this meal is lunch. I thought Dinner meant a cooked meal. So, as this meal is not necessarily cooked it is not necessarily dinner.

Besides, the word dinner conjures up memories of "school dinners" - not many memories of which are good!

1997 was a "midway" point in my life. Before then I always lived south of Crewe, but since then I have always lived north of Crewe.

Perhaps a student or Northern legacy is that I often call my evening meal "tea" whether cooked or not!
 
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