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When I was 10 I used to travel every Saturday morning on the train by myself. I used to walk from my house to the station, get the train a few stops and walk to my destination (and vice versa in the afternoon).
The last time I was checked on a Southeastern train was in summer 2014 (I remember because I was with my dad and he was doing the contactless pilot so I just looked up when that was).