My father presented me with a provisional driving licence on my 17th birthday (47 years ago now) and told me to book some driving lessons immediately. As a rebellious teenager who didn't like being told what to do - and a rail and bus enthusiast - I decided to put the licence in the bottom of my sock drawer and leave it there until it expired three years later. Soon afterwards, my father persuaded me - fairly forcefully - to have a go at driving his Volvo 340 on a private estate. I too had severe difficulty co-ordinating the steering with the acceleration/braking/clutching and decided at that point that there were already far too many idiots on the roads without me adding to their number. Mind, it didn't stop me from successfully driving trains for more than twenty years....with the steering element removed, of course. During the course of my 37 year railway career, I've known quite a few train drivers who don't drive road vehicles. I'm lucky to have lived for the last forty years in - or on the edge of - pleasant country market towns with good rail and bus connections....and that includes our place in Italy.
My wife, on the other hand, had to learn to drive, even though she hates it with a vengeance. Having been brought-up in a rural area of North Yorkshire - and having, sadly, lost her father while in her early twenties - she needed to be able to drive her mother, who never learned to drive, around for hospital appointments, family visits, etc.....although there was an hourly (now two hourly) bus service from her village to the nearest market town. In addition, my wife needed to be able to drive for her job as a rural librarian with North Yorkshire County Council. However, by the time her mother died in 2014, she was working as a university librarian in Leeds and commuting by rail - free of charge, thanks to my job. After clearing her mother's house and selling it, we decided that the cost of insuring and maintaining the car was not worthwhile, as it was sitting outside the house without turning a wheel for up to three months at a time....so we sold it. However my wife has recently renewed her driving licence, just in case we need to make the occasional essential journey using our local car-sharing co-operative.