Yes but this isn't really a debate about how reasonable the request for a first aid kit was; whatever the rights and wrongs of the request, and whatever conversation took place, and whether or not the passenger has done anything wrong or not, there just isn't any set of circumstances that could possibly excuse the behaviour seen in the video.
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No one has "excused" the behaviour of the member of staff. However some thoughts have been offered which attempt to put the incident into context. Some posters don't seem able to see beyond "sack him on the spot", which simply isn't a realistic course of action, and nor should it be (IMO).
Likewise some posters seem unable to grasp that this booking office window wasn't staffed by a computer algorithm, it was staffed by a human. Humans are flawed characters, and they make mistakes and have misjudgements - particularly when under stress. This doesn't mean that what he's done is being excused, nor does it mean that people are saying that dismissal might not be appropriate - merely that the decision should come following an investigation which looks at the entire situation from start to finish, not a selected fragment of it.
people desperately try to place blame on the victim
Now we're getting emotive. I can't see anyone is "deparately" trying to do anything in this thread. I'm certainly not that wound up about it, although I must admit the rigid attitude of some here irritates me, likewise the way some seem to be attempting to turn it into a railway staff versus everyone else circular argument.
More emotive language. Yes it shouldn't have happened, but in the grand scheme of things it really *isn't* the end of the world.
This reaction would absolutely NOT occur if the roles were reversed
This seems to be the crux of a lot of this discussion. I think you're completely barking up the wrong tree with this, on a total false premise.
it would not matter how much provocation I was under, I could never ever get away with reacting like that, and rightly so; I would not expect to!
No one has suggested he should "get away" with it, unless you take the view that "getting away with it" is any outcome other than being dismissed on the spot. As has been pointed out numerous times that simply won't be happening.