I am one of those.
I used to visit our office in the NW once a week using the train from Seamer, so a £60+ return fare even with 'old man' railcard discount, I have been working 'remotely' since 2016, pre covid I was working out of a Portakabin on a site near home, but it was just a desk and kit. When I first started the journey was fairly simple, 3hrs each way, one change at Manchester Oxford Road, Then came the 2018 meltdown, and cancellations and short running started, so I would miss a week now and then. Covid then proved I can lead the control systems engineering remotely using technology. When the journey was reliable I believe the face to face was beneficial, but given the current issues I cannot justify booking maybe 8-10 hours to travel as well as the fares, and getting home very late, the face to face is nice but the job still gets done. It was one of those journeys that started this thread.
We also used to visit friends that live near Stalybridge or they would visit us, using the train, now we meet up half way, and both drive, the last journey with my wife was one of those 'never again' moments.
Neither of us are particularly fond of driving, and the M62 with its smart motorway is one of the more unpleasant routes, so we will use the train if its reliable and comfortable. Leisure travel is usually first class, using advance tickets where possible.
Looking back to 2017, my TPE spend was around £2500 as well as some leisure travel, 2022 its around £300 and no leisure travel, and around a third of that has come back in delay repay.
All the participants in the current battles within the industry need realise that if it carries on there will nothing to argue over, and the TOCs need to realise if they keep making bad decisions there wont be a railway, the DfT will just wash their hands and say to the treasury 'there you are, just saved you a huge amount of money'
As I have said in another thread I would not want to be dependant on the railways for employment or flow down business at the moment, its not just the direct workforce, its all the other suppliers that make their living from the rail network.