UP13
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Far too much here about the rights and wrongs of chivalry, manners, politeness, courtesy and so on.
What about the poor infant in all this? I'll bet he was feeling a right tit!
Indeed.
Far too much here about the rights and wrongs of chivalry, manners, politeness, courtesy and so on.
What about the poor infant in all this? I'll bet he was feeling a right tit!
Have you ever breastfed a baby? You *can't* wait to feed them, and why should ahe have to? That's the point of breastfeeding - available on tap whenever
But you wouldn't eat your dinner with your breasts out...Quite. I also get angry when people suggest women should breastfeed in toilets. I don't eat my dinner in there so why should my baby?
But you wouldn't eat your dinner with your breasts out...
She wants to be treated equally, so why should she get special treatment.
I've seen women breastfeed while stood up anyway
Isn't the problem that unless the request is directed to a particular seated passenger everyone expects someone else to offer? I am mid-60s and feel more entitled to my seat than most younger folk nearby, if that makes me selfish then so be it. If I was that woman it would be tricky to pick on someone to ask for their seat, and embarrassing to put out a general request as it makes everyone in the vicinity feel awkward and starts everyone looking at eachother.
As for the women/men thing - this is a generalisation obviously, but women tend to be carrying more "stuff" (quite apart from infants) than men, who often only have a phone in their hand, while a woman usually has at least a bag and often a shopping bag as well. It could be argued that they shouldn't carry so much, but (generalisation alert 2) they are often responsible for feeding their male partner so need to do shopping! Also like it or not (most) women are still physically the weaker sex - for physiological reasons apart from anything else, and may be suffering from certain regular conditions that don't afflict men.
She wants to be treated equally, so why should she get special treatment.
I've seen women breastfeed while stood up anyway
But you wouldn't eat your dinner with your breasts out...
Women have shopping bags, brilliant.
I take that as sarcasm. Fair enough, but standing on most trains does require holding on to some support either while travelling or approaching stations. Most men have both their hands free, most women don't.
The fact you do not see anything untowards about your comments of woman always shopping and being responsible for feeding their partners is the most alarming thing.I take that as sarcasm. Fair enough, but standing on most trains does require holding on to some support either while travelling or approaching stations. Most men have both their hands free, most women don't.
Isn't the problem that unless the request is directed to a particular seated passenger everyone expects someone else to offer?
If men could breastfeed then they should be considered too.
A bloke holding a baby feeding with a bottle is probably the closest equivalent, and I'd suggest he would have an equal claim on a seat.
It's still bloody hard work to do so.
Must be even harder work to take a selfie at the same time but yet the blogger succeeded in doing so
Only about 1% more effort than you're putting in already...
I've seen my wife feed for hours on end to the point of sheer exhaustion, so please come to this debate better informed...
One broadly agrees. I am 66 and feeling some of the effects of later life. However, I would offer my seat to someone older than me, someone of obviously need of it, or to a woman over thirty. I honestly feel my need is greater than that of a younger woman. If rebuffed by "I hope you are not doing this because I am a woman", I reply:A seat should be offered to any standing lady or elderly person at the very least.