jenx2seven
Member
My son has done something immensely stupid.
When he turned 18 (last September) he applied for a new 16-25 rail card but has been buying a 16/17 season ticket to go with it.
He says the season ticket defaults to the 16/17 option on the app and he just carried on buying it on autopilot until this Wednesday (6th March) when he got inspected and they asked him to produce the railcard (16/17) to go with his season ticket (also 16/17).
He was travelling from Brighton to Lancing and got inspected at about 2.00pm in the afternoon just before Hove.
He realised what he had done as soon as the ticket inspector said "You have a 16/17 season ticket, please can I see your 16/17 railcard?", and instead of admitting his mistake then and there he thought to himself, "Oh crumbs, my railcard needs to match my season ticket", so he told them he didn't have it on him but that it was a 16/17 railcard. He then compounded the whole sorry mess by telling them he was 17 and giving the wrong date of birth.
He was in such a state about the lies getting out of hand, he told them he was getting off at Hove so they escorted him off the train there and filled in the ticket.
He was panicking about what he'd done (one of the inspectors told him he had nice boots in an attempt to calm him down) and rang me from outside the ticket office to ask if he should go back in and tell the truth, but I told him to just come home and we'd figure it out.
In my naivety I thought he just messed up one season ticket and that we would have to pay a fine. Having read the threads on the forum I now realise that he may have made a life-altering mistake.
He's not very functional and we usually check all this stuff for him - we pay for his travel and have been paying him the same amount since he turned 18 as we didn't realise the price had changed either.
I understand that he will be prosecuted and has absolutely no defence. I am also painfully aware that having carried his mistake forward since last September that he looks like a serial offender....even though if you knew him you would just think he was a dopey boy who doesn't cope very well with his admin. He couldn't be more sorry. The reason for coming on here is not to try and explain his behaviour, but to ask some advice about the immediate steps.
He has been given a ticket with a reference starting GTREMG and been tasked with submitting his 16/17 railcard, which obviously he doesn't have.
Should we log in and submit the 16-25 railcard he does have, or should we follow the instructions on the form and not submit anything because we can't submit what they are asking for?
I don't want to make things worse by appearing to ignore the ticket, but as I can't submit the documentation they are expecting I don't know if is worse to submit the wrong thing?
I know we will get a letter at some point and that will have further instructions so would it be better to just wait for that?
I'm really worried about waiting two weeks (maybe longer) and looking like we aren't engaging with them to sort it out.
We will do our best to beg them to let us settle out of court (the templates on the forum look very helpful for that), but I am working on the principle that they will probably prosecute him, I just don't want to make things worse for him by messing up the first steps. I'm already worried that I gave him duff advice when I told him to come home instead of going back in to Hove station to admit he panic-lied then and there.
Anyway - thanks for sticking with the post this long.
All help and advice much appreciated.
When he turned 18 (last September) he applied for a new 16-25 rail card but has been buying a 16/17 season ticket to go with it.
He says the season ticket defaults to the 16/17 option on the app and he just carried on buying it on autopilot until this Wednesday (6th March) when he got inspected and they asked him to produce the railcard (16/17) to go with his season ticket (also 16/17).
He was travelling from Brighton to Lancing and got inspected at about 2.00pm in the afternoon just before Hove.
He realised what he had done as soon as the ticket inspector said "You have a 16/17 season ticket, please can I see your 16/17 railcard?", and instead of admitting his mistake then and there he thought to himself, "Oh crumbs, my railcard needs to match my season ticket", so he told them he didn't have it on him but that it was a 16/17 railcard. He then compounded the whole sorry mess by telling them he was 17 and giving the wrong date of birth.
He was in such a state about the lies getting out of hand, he told them he was getting off at Hove so they escorted him off the train there and filled in the ticket.
He was panicking about what he'd done (one of the inspectors told him he had nice boots in an attempt to calm him down) and rang me from outside the ticket office to ask if he should go back in and tell the truth, but I told him to just come home and we'd figure it out.
In my naivety I thought he just messed up one season ticket and that we would have to pay a fine. Having read the threads on the forum I now realise that he may have made a life-altering mistake.
He's not very functional and we usually check all this stuff for him - we pay for his travel and have been paying him the same amount since he turned 18 as we didn't realise the price had changed either.
I understand that he will be prosecuted and has absolutely no defence. I am also painfully aware that having carried his mistake forward since last September that he looks like a serial offender....even though if you knew him you would just think he was a dopey boy who doesn't cope very well with his admin. He couldn't be more sorry. The reason for coming on here is not to try and explain his behaviour, but to ask some advice about the immediate steps.
He has been given a ticket with a reference starting GTREMG and been tasked with submitting his 16/17 railcard, which obviously he doesn't have.
Should we log in and submit the 16-25 railcard he does have, or should we follow the instructions on the form and not submit anything because we can't submit what they are asking for?
I don't want to make things worse by appearing to ignore the ticket, but as I can't submit the documentation they are expecting I don't know if is worse to submit the wrong thing?
I know we will get a letter at some point and that will have further instructions so would it be better to just wait for that?
I'm really worried about waiting two weeks (maybe longer) and looking like we aren't engaging with them to sort it out.
We will do our best to beg them to let us settle out of court (the templates on the forum look very helpful for that), but I am working on the principle that they will probably prosecute him, I just don't want to make things worse for him by messing up the first steps. I'm already worried that I gave him duff advice when I told him to come home instead of going back in to Hove station to admit he panic-lied then and there.
Anyway - thanks for sticking with the post this long.
All help and advice much appreciated.