I know this will be contentious to some, but I don't think the charity for assisting Armed Forces' veterans being named 'Help for Heroes' is appropriate either. The naming was probably inevitable once the Sun newspaper got behind the plans drawn up by a couple who'd witnessed discrimination against some ex-soldiers in a public swimming pool, but implying that all servicemen and servicewomen are heroes just because they signed up is ludicrous. If my father was still alive I know he'd be even more vehement, and he spent the whole of the war in the Royal Tank Regiment and for many years afterwards in the Territorial Army in Westminster.
There is also the point that up to 1960 you didn’t get much choice whether you were going to be a hero: you were conscripted. More recently, although there are plenty of people who did enlist to be in order to do something worthwhile, there were plenty who did it purely to get out of the life they were in: wider considerations were not considered. And I am including those well-heeled gentlemen who failed to get anywhere near acceptance by a ‘decent’ university, joined the army, got sponsored through university and then bought themselves out.
Yes, of course those who have risked and suffered should get fair, even generous, treatment and there should be no fiddling bureaucratic definitions of what a hero is. But accept that the members of the armed forces do a wide variety of tasks, some totally lacking in heroism and don’t all put themselves in places of personal risk.
To give an example. Should we regard as a hero the chap from Ryde who joined the Marines, broke out of camp during his basic training as he wanted to go his girlfriend’s birthday party and didn’t get back to camp until Monday afternoon. (The party was on Saturday night, but he missed the ferry back on Sunday: they are hourly and he could probably have left up to 18.00.). Her Majesty then decided she could dispense with his services.
Plenty of people put themselves in danger all the time, but the advantage of the forces for politicians is that they can tie them in with flag waving. I don’t mean to be trivial, but nobody ever consider railway track maintenance staff as heroic, even though there used to be a fairly high casualty rate. And of course, if the public rally round and raise money for the heroes, that saves the government a bit.