I think you misunderstand why HS2's cost estimate has increased - it is generally not through adding extra bits and bobs onto the scheme (notably excluding such things as putting much of the London approaches in tunnel) - it's more down to the initial estimates (and thus budget), done many years ago, probably being frankly unrealistic - the revised forecast now better accounts for these things, as HS2 have developed the scheme and its design.
No, I understand why the costs of HS2 have increased, and to an extent agree with you that the original estimates were unrealistic.
My point was why are we in the position of accepting (although not universally) that the additional costs of building the line to be able to operate at 250mph rather than some lower speed, a decision I understand to have been made at a very early stage of the process and I accept now quite difficult to reverse.
I can understand the logic of building infrastructure which is future-proofed, but does anybody expect UK trains to ever operate at that speed (in a realistic timeframe), and if they do, will the future benefits be as great as benefits that might be achieved today as a result of different spending decisions?
It is the inconsistency in approach I find puzzling. Either we accept the need to invest in "bells and whistles" to future proof what we do, or we cut our cloth the the budget available.
Meanwhile, your Stevenage example is a case of adding Bells & Whistles - all with cost of course with the extra track and signalling alterations needed - but offers very little operational benefit compared to just holding trains south of Bradbury(?) Jn towards Hertford to avoid the issue you describe. And there is nothing to stop it being added later if there is a genuine operational need.
I'm not sure where the location you mention is, but from what I can see there is nothing north of Watton which would allow a northbound passenger service to pass something else ahead of it waiting to join the down slow. Sure, passengers could wait until the line ahead clears and they can finally get into platform 5, but then that train is occupying the single line until it departs platform 5 (by now possibly late) and eventually gets to Langley South junction. That in turn has the potential to delay the next northbound service, and so on.
My original point in the Platform 5 thread wasn't so much about the
need to build it now, but whether the current works would allow whatever might be needed to be constructed without altering what has just been constructed, and without excessively increasing future costs. If there is nothing to stop it being added later then all well and good.
By the way, my comments aren't intended as a criticism of the people involved in the project. I was just trying to explore the apparent difference in approach between HS2 (and TfL funded projects) where money is spent for the future, whereas on some national rail projects the approach feels more like 1980's "do the absolute minimum we have to".