About four years ago, one of my closest friends tragically died by suicide on the railway, at a young age and at what most people consider the peak of life.
Before this happened, yes I found the phrasing of the delay excuse rather blunt, it often being heard used by automatic station announcers in the same voice and manner as any other reasoning, for example 'over running engineernig works' and a 'signalling problem'. It was just one of a group of phrases that were just part of this almost faceless, corporate machine that we have become accustomed to in the world of expectation and compensation.
After this happened, these phrases now that have become extremely jarring to me; a sense of fixation almost. Time does go some way to heal, but it never erases entirely. These days, I remember that these thoughts are only momentary, and I have developed resilience and control to deal with these situations.
When I see these situations today, what I find the most distressing is the constant desire to react or offer opinion on anything and everything on social media. When a local paper, the BTP or a TOC posts regarding delays as a consequence of these incidents, it is a constant stream of people complaining about delays or speculating on the identity of the deceased, or the ongoing commentary from somebody aboard the train in question. Equally, the reaction upon announcement of these situations in railway stations evokes very public resentment and anger in some. I understand however there is probably a less vocal majority, and there are people who offer comment of genuine emotion or empathy.
I wholeheartedly understand that this is not a situation that is going to be eradicated any time soon, if ever; equally I also get that it isn't just the railways that are affected in this way. But honestly, whatever way these events are worded by the railways, people know what it truly means. I do agree that 'person hit by a train' is probably the most graphic way I would not like to imagine, or be reminded of, the situation. But as other contributors have alluded to, the dysphemistic and blunt description can have an effect on passengers which aids their empathetic understanding of the situation. I understand what is unpleasant to some, is purposeful and aids contextualisation for others.
We live in a connected, live society where we are highly routined and often desensitised to many of the things we see and experience around us. Equally, when these things happen on a personal level, it can be incredibly difficult to build up resilience to return near to these societal norms and expectations. I'm not directly criticising those things - I just see the argument that Samaritans and others have made here from a range of angles.