Crossrail is like a Japanese commuter line - which threads through the city line a tube, but either end, is suburban and even regional in it's spread. 50 mile journeys with side seating and no toilets. Totally fine. This also has different stopping patterns - again, totally fine. RER is the same. It's closer to those than to London Overground, it's not a tube line.
Reading being semi-fast makes sense, and frankly Southend Victoria wouldn't be too far (if fasts still ran). Ending at a major destination or another hub is good practice - encourages counter-commuting, off peak demand etc - and overall utilization. Again, look at Japan and trains running to outer hubs like Utsonomiya, Odawara, Atami etc etc etc. If it was in Japan, we would for sure see Didcot and Oxford and Southend on there. But it's not as densely populated of course.