I'd argue quite the opposite.No, never. However, I wonder if a sensible half way house exists. Build the fourth rail out to Aylesbury Parkway, pay TfL to manage it, but have Chiltern run the services. Chiltern have to find suitable stock and drivers, TfL can do the safety training. Build a new fourth rail depot for Chiltern north of AVP and sell the current one for housing.
Optionally, rebuild Rickmansworth to the east as a four platform (straight!) station, and extend the four tracking from Watford south junction to the new terminal platforms. Terminate the Met there. Failing that, cut the Met's Ricky branch entirely. The Met becomes a metro that runs to Watford and Uxbridge, and interchanges with Chiltern at Moor Park, Harrow, (and ideally in dreamland, West Hampstead).
This frees up the 1960s fast lines, which can then be OHLE all the way from Aylesbury into Marylebone. NR can maintain them to a higher standard to permit faster linespeeds, and the now-NR-only platforms can be extended for longer Chiltern trains. Chiltern can then utilise the large pool of standard AC EMUs. Maybe a battery unit for the Chesham branch.