DarloRich
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Always best if you can get someone to verify what you know.In my case I'm pretty sure they knew who was doing what. The fact that they insisted on punishing people who weren't even there says it all really.
Always best if you can get someone to verify what you know.In my case I'm pretty sure they knew who was doing what. The fact that they insisted on punishing people who weren't even there says it all really.
We didn't suffer "whole class" detentions very much and when we did they were usually well deserved - the whole class (or thereabouts) had been misbehaving. We also received "whole class" slipperings. Not usually justified but no big deal. Usually took place in the gym (my form master was head of PE). Thirty of us lined up for a swift larrup with the Dunlop Green Flash. On at least one occasion there was a "whole year" slippering at the playing field. Same assailant, this time ninety of us. When suffering a slippering of 30 it usually made little difference where you were in the line. But with ninety, it was definitely advantageous to be near the end. Slippering was far preferable to detention. A couple of minutes, done and dusted. Didn't eat into one's valuable leisure time too much. We were rarely sent to see the Headmaster. Our teachers, together with the prefects, were more than capable of maintaining law and order.We did get a few whole class detentions, but not many, our school masters were very old fashioned and traditional, tending to use the slipper or cane.
I liked all of that. Gave me a good chuckle. We didn't have "policies" when I was at school. We couldn't afford them. We were far too busy learning things and having fun to worry about them anyway. I won't say which school I attended but it was a central London "Direct Grant" grammar school and is now consistently in the top five state schools in the country. Anybody reading this who was a pupil there between about 1960 and 1975 will recognise the above events and will certainly remember the exponent of the Green Flash who lived in Pangbourne and went by the initials DEAC. It gave me a superb education - and a sense of perspective.I used to point blank refuse to attend any unfair/unjust detentions. My older cousin is a solicitor, etc....
Surely the physical punishment of someone who has done nothing wrong constitutes an assault? Child abuse in fact.We didn't suffer "whole class" detentions very much and when we did they were usually well deserved - the whole class (or thereabouts) had been misbehaving. We also received "whole class" slipperings. Not usually justified but no big deal. Usually took place in the gym (my form master was head of PE). Thirty of us lined up for a swift larrup with the Dunlop Green Flash. On at least one occasion there was a "whole year" slippering at the playing field. Same assailant, this time ninety of us. When suffering a slippering of 30 it usually made little difference where you were in the line. But with ninety, it was definitely advantageous to be near the end. Slippering was far preferable to detention. A couple of minutes, done and dusted. Didn't eat into one's valuable leisure time too much. We were rarely sent to see the Headmaster. Our teachers, together with the prefects, were more than capable of maintaining law and order.
I liked all of that. Gave me a good chuckle. We didn't have "policies" when I was at school. We couldn't afford them. We were far too busy learning things and having fun to worry about them anyway. I won't say which school I attended but it was a central London "Direct Grant" grammar school and is now consistently in the top five state schools in the country. Anybody reading this who was a pupil there between about 1960 and 1975 will recognise the above events and will certainly remember the exponent of the Green Flash who lived in Pangbourne and went by the initials DEAC. It gave me a superb education - and a sense of perspective.
Today the physical punishment of someone who has done wrong constitutes an assault. We live in different times. What I'm trying to express (not very well) is the essence of that difference. We thought nothing of it. We were not beaten to within an inch of our lives; we just got a whack on the arse with a gym slipper. We'd occasionally get a "clip round the ear" from a prefect. It was summary justice, over and done with, forgotten (by both sides) the next day. Far better than being detained after school for an hour (that would have eaten into my train spotting time at Kings Cross or Finsbury Park!). We didn't consider we were "abused". On the contrary, we were privileged to have been provided with a superb education and summary discipline was part of that. Part of the "rough and tumble", so to speak. And they were happy days, indeed.Surely the physical punishment of someone who has done nothing wrong constitutes an assault? Child abuse in fact.
If you say so. As I say, I was at school in the 80s, and (at least for a short while) at a school where corporal punishment existed. I can just imagine my parents' reaction if I'd come home and told them I'd been subjected to some kind of mass school beating. I think they could just about put up with the class detentions.....or at least they didn't raise any real objections with the school when I complained about it.....but I'm quite sure this would have been a step too far for them.Today the physical punishment of someone who has done wrong constitutes an assault. We live in different times. What I'm trying to express (not very well) is the essence of that difference. We thought nothing of it. We were not beaten to within an inch of our lives; we just got a whack on the arse with a gym slipper. We'd occasionally get a "clip round the ear" from a prefect. It was summary justice, over and done with, forgotten (by both sides) the next day. Far better than being detained after school for an hour (that would have eaten into my train spotting time at Kings Cross or Finsbury Park!). We didn't consider we were "abused". On the contrary, we were privileged to have been provided with a superb education and summary discipline was part of that. Part of the "rough and tumble", so to speak. And they were happy days, indeed.
TBH, even if I stayed there for the long term, I can't conceive of any scenario (outside of the one that has been mentioned) where I would have been subjected to it. I was a fairly well behaved schoolboy. Having said that, I did forge a sick note from my parents once, at the next school I ended up at. I got rumbled straight away. Maybe that would have done it.I must have been fortunate not to encounter corporal punishment at my all-boys school between 1959 and 1967. I can't imagine I'd have found it was in any way acceptable. The short-lived National Union of School Students had a founding membership of six, four from another boys' school a few miles away, and two from my school, one of whom was myself. There was a similar, more Trotskyite, organisation whose name escapes me, but they were the toffs tortured by the silver spoons in their mouths at birth, whereas we were just city kids going with events. Chris Jagger, Mick's younger brother, was invited to join to give us 'cred' but, probably wisely, declined, as he had more than enough attention given to him.
Happy Days!Misbehaviour during CCF usually resulted in a Fatigue which was just basically a PD, though for serious offenders there was a defaulter. That comprised the Fatigue / PD plus parading in full kit outside the masters common room each break for a week!
Yes generally parents did support the headmaster this is where things have gone wrong. Now the parents generally gang up against the school.Happy Days!
I think, once again, it must be understood that those were different times. The earlier post (#52) with talk of taking a "representative" to a meeting with the Deputy Head really did make me laugh. If a pupil had refused to speak to our Headmaster in such circumstances the Headmaster would have spoken to him nonetheless. The outcome would have been identical (and possibly worse because of the pupil's intransigence). Another big difference was that in the main, parents supported such an approach. Had I told my father I had been punished at school he would have been very angry - with me. Today's children can seemingly do no wrong - but they can and do.
On the surface, I was a well-behaved schoolboy too, the only one in my year never to get an individual detention. On the other hand, I was the only one not to be made a sub-prefect, at least, on entering the third year of the 6th form (Scholarship Sixth). Subtle subversion was my stock in trade!TBH, even if I stayed there for the long term, I can't conceive of any scenario (outside of the one that has been mentioned) where I would have been subjected to it. I was a fairly well behaved schoolboy. Having said that, I did forge a sick note from my parents once, at the next school I ended up at. I got rumbled straight away. Maybe that would have done it.
Oh, I think I mentioned earlier I gave a teacher the finger once, that most certainly would have done it, had it happened at the first school. Did I just say I was a well behaved school boy? Well most of the time. LOL!
I did get given an individual detention once. TBH it was a bit harsh. I was feeling really rough because I was ill, but I couldn't get my parents to let me have a day off, and I ended up being late for school. Because I was late I got given a detention. I couldn't swear to that being the only one one, but it's the only one I remember, and I'm almost sure that's the case.On the surface, I was a well-behaved schoolboy too, the only one in my year never to get an individual detention. On the other hand, I was the only one not to be made a sub-prefect, at least, on entering the third year of the 6th form (Scholarship Sixth). Subtle subversion was my stock in trade!
Modern Languages: "Graham is a bit lazy and takes advantage of the fact that I cannot stand over him all of the time"
I wasn't exactly playing ball though was I? That's the trouble, I didn't actually learn anything. I've no idea what that says without putting it into Google Translate. The other subjects I tended to do well at though. At least until my education fell apart when I became a serial truant.There is a distinction between disruption and lassitude. J’espere que vous parlez francais tres bien quand vous allez a Paris par l’Eurostar.
It means, ‘I hope you you speak French very well when when you go to Paris on the Eurostar.’ Here the speaker is indicating that s/he actually expects the listener to speak French well. If the speaker merely hoped that good French would be spoken, then the verb would be in the much-loved subjunctive tense (parliez).I wasn't exactly playing ball though was I? That's the trouble, I didn't actually learn anything. I've no idea what that says without putting it into Google Translate. The other subjects I tended to do well at though. At least until my education fell apart when I became a serial truant.
Effectively yes. It all started at this first school, where as I've alluded to, I wasn't that happy being there. I'd never truanted before (although I had walked out of my primary school on the odd occasion). If you want the truth I got expelled from there for my absences and for walking out. In the end it turned out to be for the best though, because the school I ended up at next (Blackheath Bluecoat) was far better, and I felt more comfortable there. This was all fine for one or two years, and then I started truanting again. If you want to know why I started again after after so much time of not doing it I can't say. I know I was never that keen on the Games lessons, so that is part of it. But I started taking ridiculous amounts of time off (123 absences and late 78 times according to my Summer 1987 report). TBH it's like I was two different people: one pupil who was well behaved, turned up every day, hard working and who generally did well in lessons, and another pupil who didn't care about school and never turned up. The fact of the matter as far as I am concerned is that if I'd gone to Blackheath Bluecoat in the first place I'd probably never had started truanting. To cut a long story short I then ended up at school where they did one-to-one teaching, where I completed my schooling. I'm pleased to say I had a good attendance record there.Now come on, this is a revelation? Why did you become a serial truant? Was it because of whole class detentions? (In a desperate attempt to keep on topic).
I speak French about as well as someone who doesn't speak French at all. I think the only French I know is probably je m'appelle Graham, which amusingly I learnt at the school that I didn't like!It means, ‘I hope you you speak French very well when when you go to Paris on the Eurostar.’ Here the speaker is indicating that s/he actually expects the listener to speak French well. If the speaker merely hoped that good French would be spoken, then the verb would be in the much-loved subjunctive tense (parliez).
I truanted too, but to a public library where I devoured magazines like 'Encounter' and the 'New Statesman'. in addition to reading books. Thing is, I'd passed minimum school leaving age, and my actions were directed at the school for, imo, failing me.Now come on, this is a revelation? Why did you become a serial truant? Was it because of whole class detentions? (In a desperate attempt to keep on topic).
I used to (quite appropriately for this forum) purchase a Capital Card (as it was in those days) and spend the day travelling around London on the Tube, buses and trains. At least it gained me a good knowledge of London's public transport network. LOL! Funnily enough I never got questioned by anyone as to why I wasn't in school (even though I was in school uniform), apart from one time on a bus in the very early days. I made up some bs about having to go the dentist.I truanted too, but to a public library where I devoured magazines like 'Encounter' and the 'New Statesman'. in addition to reading books. Thing is, I'd passed minimum school leaving age, and my actions were directed at the school for, imo, failing me.