riceuten
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- 23 May 2018
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It is many years since I was ticket office staff (1978-84), and I did (honestly) try to be polite at all times, but it was depressing having to deal with the Great British Public for 8 hours or longer with many seemingly never having been taught to say please, thank you or excuse me; 'what' was more often their way of asking for a clarification. And not giving the answer the passenger expected could be fun too, I once had a lit cigarette flicked at me. Not that this excuses the rude behaviour described in the OP of course, but repeated interaction with the public can be demoralising.
I worked in a housing office - numerous ones, actually, and answering the phone to tenants and residents. Yes, the Great British Public (GBP) leave a lot to be desired, and get angry and abusive at the drop of a hat. Amongst the reasons I've seen personally (this is but a soupcon) where a customer has become irate and abusive
* refusing someone with thousands of pounds of arrears a right to buy application ("I will pay you off when I sell the house...")
* someone drunkenly stagger in at 4.45pm declaring they were homeless, and then refusing the temporary accommodation offered. Apparently we have a cache of ready to let one bedroom houses of a Friday evening
* refusing to evict a tenant so that they could move in next door to "look after their mum". The neighbour concerned was adequately housed, had zero arrears and no history of bad behaviour - the applicant just wanted us to move them out so they could be close to their parent.
Amongst the reasons I have people at the station kick off verbally and abusively
* refusing to allow someone to cut into the queue when the previous customer didn't want this to happen
* refusing to refund a advance purchase ticket...the day after its validity expired
* refusing to sell a child rate ticket (only) to someone in their 40s-50s with no child apparent
* not selling someone an off peak ticket...at 7.30am in the morning (the ticket machine at the time would not actually allow the staff member to sell one)
In these circumstances, you can understand people being cynical and jaded.