like everyone has said on this thread 90% of your conversation has to be non-work, and 10% work.
once upon a time work was my life. May be I need to change that, and get a life (possibly a partner aswell), outside of work!
^^ maybe we should start a forum dating thread. We all share similar interests after all
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The coping mechanism I would use to pass my probation (if I did work on the rails), would be to just do as much overtime as possible in order to pass my probation! And that would be my get out clause for not going for drinks or weekends out with colleagues! Or by doing overtime will people see my true colours....familiarity breeds contempt!
Overtime to avoid social events won't get you out of the pleasantries in the work place and will increase the need for them as you're there more, unless your line walking. How would you deal with customers if you can't put manage small talk, which is essential for any customer facing role?