I have told my rep about getting this statements but he’s response was that the company know about that already from my investigative statement as I did mention all that to them but them looking to get rid of me is what they will focus on doing because of all the policies they have stated that I came short of and didn’t abide by ... just don’t understand what he’s driving by, reading by he’s lines of word , he already saying it’s not worth fighting for
At the hearing, do not assume that the panel have read the previous report or know anything about the case. Even if they have read it, an oral presentation brings it to life, and makes it easier for you to stress certain points. You need to sell yourself like at an interview. It is your chance to state your side of the story, but keep it factual, relevant and don't waffle. You do need to prepare for this, to the extent of writing out a script or aide memoires, and even practice it reading it out aloud. This should make you more feel comfortable and confident. If the panel refuse to let you state your case, then this would not reflect well on them at any appeal or Tribunal.
Been trying to find other proof and evidence about the nature of our marriage but can’t find any as it was always an oral and confrontational matters and haven’t got any more physical evidence
It may be difficult to produce evidence - you hardly keep minutes of your meetings with your wife - but there may be anecdotes or other examples of how bad your marriage was. You are trying to paint a picture to build up your case. Evidence would be good, but anecdotes will help towards painting the picture.