Is it? You can get an electric train to any of the London Airports, then a relatively modern Airbus to Dublin, form where it's a short taxi ride in to town. The train requires a diesel under the wires, then a ferry which are horrific for particulates, and then a taxi from the docks to your hotel. The ferry carries about 1,500 passengers in 3 hours, the Plane about 180 passengers in 45 minutes.
Taking the ferry to the island of Ireland is way more sustainable than flying, beyond any doubt
As part of my role on my institutions sustainability committee I looked into the environmental impact of travelling from Belfast to London (a relatively common business trip in my organisation), and the environmental impact of taking the ferry to liverpool plus the train from there to london (Birkenhead square to lime street, lime street to london via trent valley) is 87% lower.
The railway data used is an overestimate on this route, because it averages out diesel and electric traction, and the fully electric traction used on this route is greener than the uk average of diesel and electric traction. (Avanti does not regularly send voyagers to Liverpool). There is also some indication that the airplane data we used was in fact an underestimate, but we couldn't get any better data at that point. In reality, the advantage of ferry and train over flying on Belfast-London is even larger than the 87% we concluded.
On London-Dublin, the diesel under the wires situation will not last much longer, as the bimodes are currently under construction.
Where I think you're going wrong is that you're forgetting that the ferries across the Irish sea are primarily there to move freight, and that everyone else (private cars and foot passengers) is effectively just tagging along. I do think that is how it should be, tbh.
Politically, the flights aren't going anywhere.
This is undoubtedly true. I don't really want to imagine how a certain community here would react to a serious proposal to end flights to England.
Regarding electrification of the North Wales mainline, it is probably not the highest priority line even within Wales, though most of it would probably be included if Wales were to follow Scotland and come up with a whole-railway decarbonisation strategy. To be honest, regional whole railway decarbonisation strategies are what we need, because currently England in particular just seems to be floating along without a plan.