(...) Yet that's all we seem to hear from the right-wing media is about surrender deals and betraying Brexit. It's all total nonsense.
Brexit is meaningless in itself. We could have had Brexit (i.e. leave the EU) and actually had a closer relationship with the EU than before.
This is also what infuriated me about the endless post-Brexit debates back in the day, on both sides of the isle. People like Nigel Farage and others should have been hammered every single day about why they kept bringing up Norway and Switzerland as shining examples of progress, wealth and democracy outside the EU, both during the campaign but also after the referendum, yet would then turn around and talk about any deal involving membership in the customs union and single market as "betrayal".
You cannot have it both ways. Fact is, Norway and Switzerland are prosperous nations, yes, both enjoying a good relationship with the EU. But fact is also, Norway and Switzerland are in the single market and have signed up to freedom of movement. In fact, they are both in Schengen too.
Norway and Switzerland definitely have their issues, I have personal experience with the latter and how a lack of EU membership, contrary to the statements of home-grown populist politicians there, does have significant downsides. There are some upsides, not everything is black and white, but staying outside the EU does come with a cost. But these downsides absolutely pale in comparison with the crappy deal the UK willingly decided to inflict upon itself.
So I agree, there never was a democratic mandate for a hard Brexit or leaving the single market and/or customs union. That is why parliament was paralysed for so long. And even the 2019 landslide general election only carried a hard Brexit "mandate" of roughly 44%, if you choose to interpret that result as such a mandate in the first place, which I would not. This problem extended across the political isle where some people, many in my personal circle even, were obsessed with fully reversing Brexit, rather than focusing on a good, closely aligned deal in the style of Switzerland or Norway. That severely lacked pragmatism at the time, and now look. But I digress...
The problem is, and Rory Stewart explained this to John Stewart during his visit to the US, the UK FPTP system is largely to blame for the more than naff status quo. Under a proportionally representative system, there is little doubt the current government would have quickly moved to a closer alignment with the EU, I think even putting matters such as single market membership on the table. Starmer and basically all his cabinet would support that move.
But under the current system where a lot of politicians and broad public opinion may well support such a move, but key target constituencies that are being monitored by the government do not, we are stuck with this unsatisfying limbo, with the government tepidly trying to move to closer alignment bit by bit without waking up the right-wing press dragon or pissing off those "key" voters in the process.
It's madness and frankly, it's undemocratic too. FPTP has really got to go.