There comes a point when you say to yourself 'enough is enough'.
I've had to put up with some awful stuff since daring to launch this blog but this has finally broken me.
Eight years ago I foolishly gave an interview to my local paper on the subject of harassment of photographers. It was a responsible, intelligent piece and the reporter wrote a fair, balanced piece.
Unfortunately the web version of the story carried the headline "Bus Spotter Quits Over Paedophile Jibes" and twisted the story completely. It was picked up by the gutter press and the lie was distributed worldwide. I'm not kidding! The day after I first heard what was going on when of all people the local BBC Breakfast Show presenter was gloating over the story. During the day I received ridiculous offers to 'tell my side of the story' from an unidentified woman's magazine, followed by Talksport and Richard and Judy. I declined all, knowing full well what they were after.
Eventually Radio 4 contacted me. I told them about the insane media circus and went on their programme to explain.
The story's still there on the web of course.
Someone's now decided it would be fun to include the story and my photo on a Facebook Group, described as 'just for fun'.
My wife has come home today distraught at the prospect of losing her job. As a break from comforting her I went online only to face this:
https://www.facebook.com/Bus-spotters-spotted-spotting-679372482140919/?fref=ts
The group features photos of bus enthusiasts taking photos with ignorant, stupid comments. The group[ photo is of me, from that 2008 story.
There are elements of our society that can only mock and destroy "just for fun".
What IS the point of having and sharing an interest? This time the camera is being retired, as is TI. I really have had enough. Conform or die is the new world motto and those who stray are just there to be destroyed.
Thanks for the 100 or so who read these reports and those who have taken the time to comment. Right now I've got a couple of lives to rebuild.
It would have been Mum's birthday on Thursday. We were just about coping. Anyway, they've had their 'fun', damn them. It's always fun unless you're the target.....
(UPDATE 15.03.16 - I reported that page to Facebook, together with a more recent group entitled "Bus Spotters Spotted" which clearly states that it is a group for bus drivers to get revenge on 'bus spotters'. Words fail you to describe how stupid people are if they think that when a bus is photographed it is the driver that is the target. Just how vain and ignorant are these people? Facebook's response was that there has been no contravention of their policies.
So, it's perfectly okay for Facebook users to harass, victimise and ridicule others? So long as we know.
No wonder kids end up taking their lives.
I am leaving TI online for a while so that this final entry can reach as many as possible. Long term readers will know I've had to suspend it before but this time I am determined that the end of the road has been reached. This by the way is post 299. Far too many.... I will be deleting all reports in time.
We sadly live in an increasingly intolerant, arrogant, greedy and selfish world which increasingly resents anything that does not conform to an arbitrarily-set 'norm'. After the appalling behaviour by some transport staff, a significant proportion of the public, the press and even the police what has finally defeated me is the appalling behaviour of too many people involved in the hobby itself. Those who behave irresponsibly thus earning the rest of us a bad name, those who trawl the internet looking for photos to copy and present in social media as their own, or the latest nasty twist - preserved bus owners resenting photographers on the basis that they don't make money from them. You go to rallies and you see them deliberately standing in front of their vehicles to spoil photos then bitching.
This is supposed to be about fun. People create the hobby. People ruin it. Too many only know how to destroy. It salves their own inadequacies. Eventually there's too many spoiling it. I made the appalling error of trusting the press back in 2008 and it still haunts me.
I may still take some photos at rallies but they will now be strictly for the benefit of myself and my close friends. I am sorry it's come to this - each report used to get about 100 views so I know that there was a small but loyal group following. Thank you. It's a mess and quite frankly after 40-odd years I really have had enough.)
Posted 14th March 2016 by
Rob McCaffery