That's where I think we disagree. The hysteria about things that customers just don't care about is notable - particularly on this forum. Some folk have chips on their shoulders and have absolutely nothing positive to contribute in any circumstance, which is a shame when a lot of good is happening despite some problems.
I agree to an extent, but the reverse also happens - there are plenty of cases of undeniably unacceptable performance which are shrugged off as 'that's how it works on the railway'. While I accept there are practical limitations for every problem, finding a suitable excuse for everything that's bad about the rail industry rather than suggesting how it might be put right is part of the reason public transport is where it is right now. Forum users aren't going to have much sway in the matter, but if everybody takes the same attitude, nothing gets done. This is why I'm all for the campaigning that goes on when people don't receive a good enough service. It has to be communicated when the rail industry lets down its users.
Also beware of using statistics to assess the general beliefs of the population. If I never used to get a seat on a train and now I do because there are more seats, but the seats are ****, I'm still likely to give an increase in my score on a prefabricated survey for 'seating comfort'. It doesn't mean I think the seating is comfortable, it just means I prefer a Fainsa Sophia to sitting on the floor. Likewise, if punctuality / reliability improved from 'very poor' to 'poor' that 10-15% improvement in satisfaction does not mean "job well done lads, let's quit while we're ahead".
The UK's railways are not third world. We don't have to sit on the roof, we don't have dedicated staff to push us in so we all fit, rolling stock is generally of an acceptable standard and so is the service pattern, with a few possible exceptions in the North of England. What gets people's backs up is that it could have been so much better. The government routinely doesn't invest in railways and for GWR, they finally have, the IEP cost an absolute fortune, and what we got for their money just could have been so much better.