Yep; Better By You, Better Than Me. The suicide was in Reno, Nevada, in the late 1980s. I'm not being hyperbolic but it's an absolute disgrace that that case ever got as high as it did, it was an absolute joke. One of my favourite moments of that whole event was Jeremy Paxman on TV at the time during a debate saying 'Well, he has a point [name], I don't actually know anyone who does listen to music backwards'. As someone who listens to Judas Priest religiously I can state that at no point during my listening to them have I thought they were trying to tell me to worship Satan, or kill people or any of that nonsense. TBF Priest are actually quite an upbeat metal band when they want to be. Anybody who genuinely believes that listening to metal makes you want to kill yourself or that there are satanic backwards messages in songs is extremely misguided in my opinion.
Totally agree mate, and I prefer the apparently dodgy stuff, and I don't think that makes you kill yourself either.