Does anybody find people go out less? Some people my wife has not seen for a year. I speak to taxis and they say they have never been more quiet. I wonder if there’s a whole generation who stay in more and watch Netflix due to Covid and cost of living?
I go out a lot less. But it is difficult to separate the effects of covid from the effects of other changes to my physical and mental health.
Well my regular Saturday visit to meet my friends at the local Wetherspoons died with lockdown.
I was a member of similar group which used to meet on Sunday evenings.
I also attended a weekly group meeting like this, going back decades. I was there most weeks before the pandemic, now I only go if it is somewhere that I can get home from before dark. That's not many occasions, and not at all in winter.
Would people care about this anymore? From what I can see people have not been frightened of being on busy trains and buses due to Covid for a long time.
Yes, I do. As a result, I do much less travelling than before covid, and mostly aim for trains that I'm confident won't be crowded. Nearly all of my journeys are on trains where I won't get anyone sitting next to me. The only times that happens are coming back from Kew Gardens to West Hampstead after visiting the National Archives, or on a peak time train coming back from London. For the latter I use the Thameslink train because I'll only have someone sitting next to me from St Pancras to Stevenage or Hitchin.
And the people who are very frightened of being on busy trains: of course you won't see them because they are still at home.
I'm very much doubt I'm alone in being a poster on this forum who was forced into an awful lot of compulsory solitary confinement
I'm sorry to hear about this. I'm fortunate that I live in an apartment block and it is quite hard to go in and out without crossing paths with a neighbour. Through covid I made a rule to speak to someone every day, even if it was only the person on the checkout in the supermarket. If I couldn't get face to face contact on any day, then I used the phone instead. And I made particular effort to keep in phone contact with a friend in a similar position to you.
And the group that I attended regularly before the pandemic, hardly any of them pick up the phone to see if I'm ok!
many members haven't come back to the club, citing ill health, fear of assault in the town centre at night, COVID anxiety, driving at night, parking and caring duties as reasons. It doesn't help that the clubroom is up a flight of stairs with no lift. Within the three years of the pandemic, it seems that the fragility of the local and regional population has skyrocketed.
I felt that, during covid, I lost my "sixth sense" of how to keep myself safe in crowds and/or at night. It is a general anxiety, though some of these things are part of that general anxiety.
And as someone who has reached the stage of finding it difficult to get upstairs, your bridge club definitely needs a new venue. When considering whether to make a trip, how many stairs I'm going to have to deal with is one of the first considerations.