I feel you and I could be the same person! On pay alone, I'd have accepted 4+4.As a fairly politicaly middle of field and level headed RMT member in a guard grade I know there needs to be a level of compromise on both sides. Personally payrise wise 4+4 would be an adequate for me. I know there needs to be modernisation in the railway especially with Sundays etc - this is something I believe most people would work with the TOCs with and find ways to save money or make the operation slicker.
However being sent that 10 bullet point list of demands was not the way to do it. Treat us with respect and open a dialogue. Most of us want to work with "them" and not against them.
I recognise that ticket offices (sooner or later) will close, it's how do we get the person from behind the glass to utilise them the best we possibly can?
At my TOC, Sunday's are committed and work very well, there's minimal cancellations due to lack of train crew and there's often folk wishing to pick up additional Sunday's. Although, I accept this isn't the case for all TOCs.
The DOO/DCO and redundancy points are a concern for me, but I do believe we'll end up a southern OBS or SE HS OBM style of working, wish potentially signing all traction and working over all routes. This in turn would deliver savings because you wouldn't necessarily need 2/3 cover conductors at every depot.