People are asking me so many questions I feel like I'm being interrogated for a murder.
No, not at all. Yes, some on the board will ask questions but in the main these are just to clarify points of fact. You can always look at these questions as a practise session prior to the important ones from Northern later. Remember you are not on trial here on this forum and do not have to answer any questions that you do not wish to. However, that said, people on this forum do genuinely wish to help and as they were not present at the time in question may have to ask further questions to clarify any misunderstanding.
Remember too that this is an open forum and as such there will be many opinions as to your circumstances and the more general points raised i.e the voucher scheme as used by Northern. Some members are strongly pro TOCs (Train Operating Companies) AKA The Railway & some are strongly pro passenger. Others will take a more balanced viewpoint (I would hope to class myself in that group) - you will have to use your life skills to choose which comments can offer you succour.
Do not get too worried about the arguments amongst the various members with regard to general points raised by your experiences. However, it may be beneficial to move these to a new thread. This would be a decision for the moderators though.
So frustrated and stressed out at what could become of this, really don't want a criminal record
I know that it is easy to state here but there is no point worrying and fretting about this too much. Yes, it is a serious matter but you will have to wait until Northern contact you and state their intentions at this time they will give you a chance to give a written statement as to the facts as you recollect them. (This is when the questioning that you mention above may help you). Feel free to return then & request that somebody on this forum proofread your statement.
This may take several months to arrive as most railway prosecution departments are quite small and there is always a bit of a backlog. You will just have to have patience, again easy to state here when it is not me waiting.
Remember in life nothing is ever as bad as it seems in your imagination (unfortunately nothing is ever as good also) and hopefully in a few months this will be over and you can move on with your life.
Good luck in your endeavors.
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