This is what's swung me strongly in favour of leaving, again the establishment still isn't listening to the electorate.
This "not listening to the electorate" line is getting old. Of a potential 46,500,00 voters (give or take), 17,411,00 voted to leave. So that is 38%
of the electorate who voted to leave. (In other words, the majority of the Electorate didn't vote to leave).
And it's a fact that some portion of those people desired a "soft Brexit" (with a deal in place). Given that the Leave campaign repeatedly downplayed the idea of a hard Brexit, it isn't stretching credibility to say that 20% of those who voted for Leave wanted a soft Brexit (in reality it was probably much higher than that but nobody knows for sure). If even 10% of people who voted Leave had either voted Remain or not voted that would have swung the referendum result the other way.
Given that leaving without a deal
will cause serious economic and societal damage in the short term, and has the potential to cause a generation to be poorer than they otherwise would have been, and given that there is so much uncertainty as to what the "will of the people" actually was then it is right and proper for our elected officials to act as a brake against us crashing out with no deal.
Once we have a deal on the table (either the existing one or a renegotiated one) then we - the people - should have a confirmatory vote with three options: leave without a deal, leave with this deal or remain.