David
Established Member
I can only speak from my own personal experience of seeing how 15-year old people do not change all that much in terms of maturity of thought in the short period of time when they become 18 years of age.
There are forum members between 14 and 18 years of age who could give their own perspective on how much a 15 year-old will mature in thought in the short period of attaining the age of 18.
Unfortunately, you can never predict how anyone can change or mature in a certain amount of time. Some people will be dead set in their ways/beliefs and will never change. Others will change their ways and/or mannerisms over a period of time,
Teenagers (and pre-teens) are completely different, as their views and mannerisms, and their idea's of right and wrong are still being influenced by everyone else around them possibly up until the age of 18 to 20. This is because they are in their most formative years. A teenager who grows up in a hard working middle class area will probably adopt the ideas and mannerisms of those who live around them, same for a teenager who grows up in an area dominated by chavs (for want of a better term).
However, it's those young teenagers, or those approaching their teen years who will change most if they move from 1 type of area to another. Let me tell you a story ....
3 years ago, a new family moved into the end of the street I live in. A single mother with 6 children. (The end of the world I hear you shout.) The eldest child, who was then a 16yo girl quickly moved out because "she wanted to be with the people she most associated with". IE. Chavs. Her life has been a mess since, including drugs, arrests, going to A&E because the "boyfriend" beat her up to "demonstrate how much he loved her", etc. However ....
The next eldest child, who was 12 when they moved in, was nearly as feral as the girl. But due to going to a different school, interacting with people who have a different set of ideals/morals, and basically being told to "put up or shut up" has changed his ways completely. He is approaching his 16th birthday, expected to get straight A-C's in his GCSEs, plus he is volunteering at a local charity shop every Saturday. His attitude as well is completely different from when the family first moved in. Then it was a case of "<explitive> you", now it is a case of "can I help in any way?"
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While it is partially a case of 'never judge a book by it's cover', it is a case (and a true story) of how 'an old dog can learn new tricks'.
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