Just like we all stood back whilst the first person in every doorway threw the door open, then waited whilst the next few stumbled over feet. Then we piled in over the same feet with a few doors delaying the whole train.
In a true commuter service, it is unusual to have a station where there was a large number of joiners and leavers. Mostly, the trains are either mainly gathering passengers at each station to dump them at the city terminus or a close-in junction. The opposite happens at the end of the working day, i.e. there is a mass boarding before the train starts and a steady net egress as the train moves into the dormitory areas at the country end of it's service.
Modern high capacity trains have a graded access route from the 'travelling area' where the seating and safe standing takes place, through to a wide egress/ingress area allowing safe stepping across the platform-train interface. Recent trains have an improved door area with wider, faster operating doors and adequate stand-back provision, so by the time that that area gets continuously full, the train itself is at crush load levels.
When compartment-style trains were loaded to that level, their dwells would extend greatly as the standees would need to alight so that others could get off then they would reborn followed by ant waiting to get on at that station. The commuting world is as Dr Hoo says different now, numbers are much higher and increasingly, headways are tighter with better signalling to maintain safety. The Cannon St minor buffer collision shows just how unsafe high density standing amongst seats can be.