starrymarkb
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Owners of young children... What are they called again?
Usually Parents, but could be a Teacher or other Responsible Adult. It still made me smile though
Owners of young children... What are they called again?
Well no it isn't prejudice, lets stop throwing emotive words around, its just an assumption that may be right or wrong.
There are too many people playing the 'special needs card' to get what they want and this appears to be a prime example of that.
If these childrens needs really are that special perhaps a minibus should have been hired to transport them?
Whilst I appreciate there is an element of one-sidedness and perhaps exaggeration in the reporting, I am aware that a female conductor on these services is making a bit of a name for herself in the passenger-unfriendly stakes. I am certain, if this report refers to the same individual, that this is not the first complaint about her attitude and behaviour.
Unfortunately, Cross Country appear to have a flagrant disregard for customer service, particularly at times of service disruption, and her attitude is one that I expect filters down from a higher level.
Indeed, and I'd join in with that.... (ie the dig is against the organisers not the children)...
Absolutely. There's no doubt in my mind that the organisers are playing the 'special needs' card when really that was never anything to do with it.I think the whole 'Special Needs' thing is by the by, a piece of sensationalism by a media group notorious for it.
The real matter is whether or not the Guard was right to refuse these children (disabilities or not) free First Class upgrades and I believe he was right - people pay for FC to get away from noisy children. Upgrading other passengers to make room for them in Standard would have been a better course of action though.
the original article - I equate "special needs" with disabled children. Perhaps my experience is clouding my judgement.
Yes it is - you and others have shown quite blatant prejudice towards one group of people.
What other words shall we use? You dont want to allow a disabled person to use the same train as you. What else shall i call it?
I assume you have lots of experience of dealing with the disabled that makes you suitably qualified to comment on this. Or is it something you read in the paper?
What is that if not prejudice :roll:
What other group in society should not be allowed to travel by train?
What are you scared of? That they might touch you? Imagine that - A disabled touching you!!!!!!!!!!!!! You might catch whatever they have! :roll:
TBH this must be trolling which I am sure has just landed a big bite but what the hell. These attitudes are all wrong and should be challenged.
I think that regardless of their needs or not, the preferred method to transport a group of kids of this age range would not be on a train (packed or not). I wouldn't let my youngest go in a group who were travelling by train, I would very much prefer coach/minibus travel. With the amount of kids to adults there would always be a risk that one could go missing and disabled, special needs or otherwise doesn't have anything to do with that.
It would only need one adult to take one child to the toilet, then the ratio of adults to children goes up massively and, in my opinion, unacceptably
It does seem to me that the railUK attitude of "the railway is always right" is shining through on this thread - a lot of posters have seemed to jump straight to the conclusion that the rail worker was in the right and it was the fault of the disabled people which is incredibly unfair until all the facts come to light.
What does this mean then because it looks to me like you are saying that those with special needs should be sent in a special mini bus rather than by train:
Perhaps you could clarify your point if I have misunderstood it?
My view is that public transport should be for all members of the public. Yours appears to be somewhat different.
Yes, it is prejudice, Steve Ford. Let's have a look at the word. It means to "pre judge" which is precisely what you are doing here when you specifically claimed that a group of children will wail "randomly".
And what if they do "wail randomly"? What is wrong with that?
Why should they not travel by train? Why should they be put in a minibus? What a narrow minded attitude you seem to have.
I don't believe they should have claimed special treatment beyond what they had already arranged (if any) but there is a duty on businesses to make reasonable adjustments for disabled folk and I'd have expected the train staff to know their duty, understand the situation and allow this group to sit in seats that were otherwise unoccupied. That's not "playing the special needs card" - it is a simple civil duty for others to try to help wherever possible.
They are people. Just like me, and you, who deserve to do the things in life that you and I are able to do. Or would you rather they were kept out of sight and sound?
On the more general point about children in first class, it has been suggested in another post that some people travel first class to avoid children. Well, more fool them, then. I've travelled first class for years and by far the better passengers with which to share the journey have been children, rather than some of the ignorant oiks who claim to be "working" and demand the whole table and extra seats for their coat, jacket, scarf, documents, laptop, coffee and bags, and spend much of the journey yapping on the phone at high volume to another oik ("random wailing" maybe!) Thankfully, these oiks are not common.
Steve
I interpret Steve Ford's comments differently, in a more sarcastic tone, that if the leaders of the group (ie the teachers) wanted to have everything their own way and guarantee a seat for every child, then perhaps they should organise their own private vehicle where there will be no train manager to deny them a free upgrade. (ie the dig is against the organisers not the children).
This is not the same as saying the children shouldn't be allowed to travel on trains.
Bear in mind Steve Ford seems to be pretty anti-disabled in my book - earlier in the thread he said his grandson was diagnosed as special needs but he refuse to believe it and blamed bad parenting for a disability!
It does seem to me that the railUK attitude of "the railway is always right" is shining through on this thread - a lot of posters have seemed to jump straight to the conclusion that the rail worker was in the right and it was the fault of the disabled people which is incredibly unfair until all the facts come to light.
Yes you have 'misunderstood'
If these childrens needs really are that special perhaps a minibus should have been hired to transport them?
No prejudicial reason, just simply that they will make a lot of noise (random wailing, etc) and 2 adults can hardly supervise/discipline them all!
Which is interesting as some people make the opposite accusation! It is, however, only to be expected that there are, in fact, a range of opinions on this matter as you'd expect anywhere.It does seem to me that the railUK attitude of "the railway is always right" is shining through on this thread ....
They have no right to, however there is the risk that one of them may rant about it, as the organisers in the article did. So I can understand if you'd be apprehensive about doing so.1) & 2) obviously. If I told these people would the others complain ?
I do not think that it is a case of being "narrow minded" and I would appreciate it if everyone can please bear in mind our rules do ask that posts should be "respectful" towards other members.Why should they not travel by train? Why should they be put in a minibus? What a narrow minded attitude you seem to have.
This was already done by maniacmartin (post #153 ), and Steve Ford confirmed that was indeed the point he was making, in the post you are responding to.Help me out then - I notice you didn’t take the opportunity to add any clarification. I notice your previous thread has gone but perhaps you could explain to me the point set out below as you seem unwilling or unable to do so thus far.
Always difficult
Today my train was full and standing. There were 6 (out of 15) seats empty in First Class.
Stood outside of First Class was
1) an elderly lady
2) a younger woman on crutches
3) a woman (aged about 25) with two children
4) a solo male (aged about 30)
5) a solo female (aged about 40)
I wanted to "invite" people into First Class. Who should I tender the request to ?
1) & 2) obviously. If I told these people would the others complain ?
Why should I invite 1) and 2) but not the others - there would have still been 3 empty seats !
Incidentally (and this is to those who are guards and conductors on here) How does the upgrade work on your trains? Is there a stamp you put on the ticket? Is there any paperwork? What happens when someone pays their upgrade? how easy is it to say "Give us a fiver and I'll stamp your ticket" ? And would you get booked by your bosses/an RPI if you did?
I agree Steve.'Special needs' can mean just about anything and some people try and label their kids with that tag to get what they want, whether that happened here I obviously don't know.
Would anybody who has paid for first class really want their peace and quiet shattered by (presumably noisy?) kids?
Sounds like a storm in a teacup quite honestly.
Which is my point exactly Jon. "Special Needs" covers such a complex array of conditions, its impossible to judge. It doesn't change the fact that the organisers of the trip were the architects of the problem when they failed to reserve the seats for the journey.The special needs bit has definitely made the difference here, which is (possibly) what was intended.
I know that doesn't help elderly, pregnant or disabled passengers who haven't got a seat, but it might be possible to accommodate them in the seats vacated by those who do elect to pay for their upgrade.
What does this mean then because it looks to me like you are saying that those with special needs should be sent in a special mini bus rather than by train:
Perhaps you could clarify your point if I have misunderstood it?
My view is that public transport should be for all members of the public. Yours appears to be somewhat different.
I wonder what it is about this story that has generated so much heat and smoke!