I think there’s something seriously amiss when public corporations like the BBC choose to favour some social networking sites – for which read Facebook -- over competing smaller ones. It’s unfair to be giving the market leader an extra competitive advantage. Why they can’t just use their own website, I don’t know. (In fact I do know – it’s because that’s the only way programme producers can bypass the plethora of compliance obstacles that stand in the way of timely updates to the official website.)
In my experience, there's a natural life-cycle to one’s use of social networking sites. One goes through the following phases in turn: novelty, fun, obsessive, infuriating, and finally tedious. For me, it took from 1998 to 2003 to get them out of my system.
These days, I prefer messageboards for subjects that interest me. Like RailUK.
But I learnt a lot during the infuriating phase. With apologies to “normal” people online, the following jaundiced and world-weary opinions have come from that phase:
(1) Contrary to what intuition might lead you to suspect, being verbally attacked in a public forum on the internet is often far more upsetting than being attacked verbally offline.
(2) A lot of people don’t understand (1) and seem incapable of exercising the norms of restraint and consideration that social etiquette would force upon them in offline settings.
(3) The overwhelming majority of internet users do so passively, engaging others mainly on a one-to-one basis. The much smaller pool of heavy posters to public boards includes a disproportionate number of people who like to be self-righteous and judgemental, smugly wallowing in schadenfreude. These people never seem to be offline, and presumably it’s their own empty lives that make them the way they are.
(4) If people posted online only when they had something useful to contribute, 99% of postings would disappear.
(5) Having skim read a thread to pick out the few apparently useful contributions, it can then be tricky discerning genuine information from speculation, ill-informed opinion, gossip and downright misinformation.
(6) As the song in Avenue Q has it, the internet is (mainly) for porn.