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With respect, its their funeral. You can have what you want when you pop your clogs - and as it happens a party is what I want too! But if the family want a tie or a black tie - if they feel that denotes respect, then that is what I'll do.If I'd just lost a loved one I wouldn't give a monkeys how people came dressed to their funeral. If you've just lost a loved one and you are worried about how other people choose to dress then your priorities are all wrong.
A funeral should be a celebration of someone's life. People should come dressed to have a good time. All that black tie, shoe-gazing stuff is pathetic and I refuse to submit to it. When I kick the bucket I don't want a load of stuffy punters sitting around moping, I want them to have a massive party, a good drink, a dance and laugh.