The discussions that I've had mainly focus around two factors: first is the issue of EU membership itself. The general feeling is that the UK as a whole and Scotland specifically has gained more than we've lost through being Eu members. For example, Scottish universities are very popular with European research students and vice versa and Scottish farmers/fishermen/manufacturers sell a
lot into Europe. So, to answer
@Sad Sprinter'a question - if we were to keep the key freedoms then that would go a long way to settling the question in favour of staying in the Union.
The second issue (well, second for me but primary for some) is not that Brexit is happening, but rather
how the UK Government has approached it. There has been (or at least appears to have been) little to no consultation with the Scottish Government as to what Brexit actually means. Most of the people I interact with see it as Engexit - it's something that England is foisting on the rest of us with scant regard for how it will affect us. The last few years have reinforced the notion that England doesn't care about Scotland (unless a
Scottish British sportsperson is doing well that is!) At pain of repeating myself, we were promised by the UK Government that the only way to guarantee that we would remain EU members was to vote to stay in the Union, yet barely two years later we were told that we were getting dragged out against our will.
They might not have been lying to us, but it definitely felt like we'd been sold a pig in poke.