I think Pearl Harbour was Dec 7th...
However, I concur with your first rule of dating. It's getting to be a tight squeak, but Her Nibs does still earn more than your 'umble servant. She's a treasure though. Didn't bat an eyelid when I told her I was going to buy first a car then a £6k bike.
Just one word of advice from an old stager. Well, two actually. Firstly, make sure you savour every single moment of the happy (?) day. It will go by so fast and be over before you know it, so make sure you take the time to enjoy the day and remember it. Videos and the like are all well and good, but they won't convey how you feel on the day. Secondly, the hard work ain't over (no sir). It takes as much work to keep the marriage ticking over as it did to woo and win her, so don't take your foot off the gas or take things for granted. Sure you'll get a routine and an easy way of being together, but familiarity can breed contempt so keep up the effort.
Oh, and congratulations and best wishes to both you and the future Mrs Ghostcav.
one TN