What on earth are you going on about?
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Not arrogant Strange6, just defensive I would say and until you have been involved in a railway fatality, been tested for drugs and alcohol, had to go to the inquest and meet the familys who all stare at you on occasions making you think you have murdered their dad or mum etc, you will not understand the aftermath for a driver, for a judge to say in court the only way of identifying the victim was one finger print is slightly different than hitting someone in your car.[/QUOTE]
So there is a difference between killing somebody by a car and a train is there? Are you not tested for drugs and alcohol if you kill somebody on the road? Do you not have to attend an inquest or court if you kill somebody on the road? Do people not get serious, horrible injuries if you kill them on the road? Are drivers not affected mentally if they kill somebody on the road?
Some of you think you're an extra special case because you work on the railways; as though you're better than everybody else. I have not written anything derogatory or insensitive in this thread to justify some of the silly little comments thrown at me. How do you know I haven't seriously injured or killed somebody on the road through no fault of my own?
God, some of you have the nerve to criticise what I have written when you should be looking at some of the silly comments you yourselves have written.[/QUOTE]
Silly comments...?? Since YOU started the thread I think you should have a look back through it and read what people have actually said in reply to your OP. I do not think I'm a special case because I'm a train driver, far from it, and sadly I'm not able to read your mind so don't know whether or not you've killed somebody in a road accident. If there's really something else on your mind then say so. Does anything I wrote in my post amount to a 'silly comment'? I don't think so.
As for there being a difference between road and rail related deaths I'd say there are - most rail related deaths are from suicides, ie: people who choose to end their lives that way, whereas most road deaths are caused by drivers doing something wrong, illegal, or downright stupid.... all very different. I'm not saying that there's no remorse felt on the part of motorists who've been involved in such things, but very often those that cause death on the roads live to tell the tale and get on with their lives as if nothing can touch them. You ask 'are drivers not affected mentally if they kill someone on the roads?' I'd say some are, but there are plenty who just walk away with a fine and maybe a short driving ban and think they've got off lightly, then carry on driving just as they did before. That's very different to how train drivers conduct themselves when they get back to work after a fatality, I can assure you.